Friday, July 27, 2012

As Parent-Coach

2 Chronicles 24:2
Joash did what was right in the eyes of the LORD all the years of Jehoiada the priest.

Almost around the corner is the 2012 London Olympics. I may have zero athletic blood in me, but this is something I always look forward to. With the social networking sites providing links to updates and inside stories, even fans can prepare for the competitions. I especially like checking profiles. My latest read was about Anna Li, a Chinese-America gymnast who, although a hundred percent Chinese, is playing for the US team. Her parents were both Olympics medalists and coaches who initially do not want her this dream because they knew how hard it will be.  Li said: ‘It's me who wants it, no one has to force me to push for my dream. They just support me.’

Reading the first paragraphs of chapter twenty four, you’ll have the impression that King Joash himself loved the Lord. He initiated the temple restoration project, proclaimed the required tax for its completion, even questioned the high priest when he saw the work wasn’t progressing. He supported all religious concepts, even attended to it - - for as long as his mentor was around. When Jehoiada died, so did Joash’ piety. The idolatry his mentor smashed, he welded. The very son of the one who raised him up, he ordered stoned. As a result, God sent judgment via the king of Aram. All his good works plundered, leaving him severely wounded and helpless against his official’s conspiracy. Unlike his mentor, his body was not buried in the tombs of the kings. For unlike his mentor, his heart wasn’t after God’s own.

As a parent, this story scares me. For like Jehoiada, I made sure God’s word is in my kids' hands. My goal is to raise them up loving God and His work, as my own parents did to me. That means being a godly example too. But if Judah’s high priest wasn’t able to do it, what’s my guarantee? It’s a heartbreaking thought that when I die, so will their compliance to the things of God. What would bridge the gap so they’d be like Li and say ‘It’s me who want it!’  Paul prayed the same for Timothy when he said, ‘Continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of’.  As parents, the most we can do is to provide the ‘learning’ and pave the way for them to know Christ. The second half is a really personal decision.  As coaches, we can give them winning tips on running, but the choice to run is theirs. We can’t force it on them.  As young as they are, let them know that their obedience is not to us, but to God’s. That mindset would at least provide us a clue when it’s time to pray harder.  As we always should.

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As Parent-Coach

2 Chronicles 24:2
Joash did what was right in the eyes of the LORD all the years of Jehoiada the priest.

Almost around the corner is the 2012 London Olympics. I may have zero athletic blood in me, but this is something I always look forward to. With the social networking sites providing links to updates and inside stories, even fans can prepare for the competitions. I especially like checking profiles. My latest read was about Anna Li, a Chinese-America gymnast who, although a hundred percent Chinese, is playing for the US team. Her parents were both Olympics medalists and coaches who initially do not want her this dream because they knew how hard it will be.  Li said: ‘It's me who wants it, no one has to force me to push for my dream. They just support me.’

Reading the first paragraphs of chapter twenty four, you’ll have the impression that King Joash himself loved the Lord. He initiated the temple restoration project, proclaimed the required tax for its completion, even questioned the high priest when he saw the work wasn’t progressing. He supported all religious concepts, even attended to it - - for as long as his mentor was around. When Jehoiada died, so did Joash’ piety. The idolatry his mentor smashed, he welded. The very son of the one who raised him up, he ordered stoned. As a result, God sent judgment via the king of Aram. All his good works plundered, leaving him severely wounded and helpless against his official’s conspiracy. Unlike his mentor, his body was not buried in the tombs of the kings. For unlike his mentor, his heart wasn’t after God’s own.

As a parent, this story scares me. For like Jehoiada, I made sure God’s word is in my kids' hands. My goal is to raise them up loving God and His work, as my own parents did to me. That means being a godly example too. But if Judah’s high priest wasn’t able to do it, what’s my guarantee? It’s a heartbreaking thought that when I die, so will their compliance to the things of God. What would bridge the gap so they’d be like Li and say ‘It’s me who want it!’  Paul prayed the same for Timothy when he said, ‘Continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of’.  As parents, the most we can do is to provide the ‘learning’ and pave the way for them to know Christ. The second half is a really personal decision.  As coaches, we can give them winning tips on running, but the choice to run is theirs. We can’t force it on them.  As young as they are, let them know that their obedience is not to us, but to God’s. That mindset would at least provide us a clue when it’s time to pray harder.  As we always should.