Monday, May 14, 2012

Why They Got Away With It


2 Chronicles 7:19,20a
“But if you turn away and forsake the decrees and commands I have given you and go off to serve other gods and worship them, then I will uproot Israel from my land”

For the longest time, I have been receiving text messages from this person complaining about her choir, and their worship team in general. “They have no commitment ate” she said. “They come in late, sometimes they’re just a handful, and once or twice, they won’t come at all.  The saddest part is that they won’t even drop an excuse nor any apology after.”  Imagine her waiting on the piano every weekend, clueless if anyone’s coming at all. I remember how I felt for that boy in Little Man Tate when nobody showed up for his birthday party. Such makes us frustrated and angry. We’d demand that someone takes the blame. Or at least something.

As early as Eden, whenever God engages man to a relationship with Him, or a task for Him, He makes sure pros and cons are in black in white. “Work at the garden, take care of it, and you may enjoy its fruit. But not the middle tree, or you will die.” He left no room for them to fall into sin because of ignorance. When they ate the fruit and found themselves naked, He did not say, “Ok, let’s make some rules here.” God established the system before He called people in. It was the same in Exodus. When He gave the commandments, He made clear the blessings of obedience, and the curses that come with disobedience. Same here with Solomon. God reminded him the Davidic covenant and His desire that he’d follow his father’s footsteps for the establishment of the royal kingdom. And then He itemized what will happen if he and Israel will choose otherwise. All in print. Out in the open.

We’ve seen broken relationships and breach of contracts left and right, and sadly, the very offenders are the ones we see free and yes, carefree. Adding insult to injury. And as much as we want to force them to make amends, the fact that we entered that relationship without provisions for possible breach, sealed that invisible right for them to ‘get away with it’. Now we know why it’s wise to be God-like in our dealings. It’s one thing to have faith in someone, but it’s another to teach them accountability and responsibility. This likewise applies to parenting and marriage, even ministry organizations. Take time to draft rules and make it clear to everyone. Otherwise, you know who’s to blame why discipline can’t take its place.  

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Why They Got Away With It


2 Chronicles 7:19,20a
“But if you turn away and forsake the decrees and commands I have given you and go off to serve other gods and worship them, then I will uproot Israel from my land”

For the longest time, I have been receiving text messages from this person complaining about her choir, and their worship team in general. “They have no commitment ate” she said. “They come in late, sometimes they’re just a handful, and once or twice, they won’t come at all.  The saddest part is that they won’t even drop an excuse nor any apology after.”  Imagine her waiting on the piano every weekend, clueless if anyone’s coming at all. I remember how I felt for that boy in Little Man Tate when nobody showed up for his birthday party. Such makes us frustrated and angry. We’d demand that someone takes the blame. Or at least something.

As early as Eden, whenever God engages man to a relationship with Him, or a task for Him, He makes sure pros and cons are in black in white. “Work at the garden, take care of it, and you may enjoy its fruit. But not the middle tree, or you will die.” He left no room for them to fall into sin because of ignorance. When they ate the fruit and found themselves naked, He did not say, “Ok, let’s make some rules here.” God established the system before He called people in. It was the same in Exodus. When He gave the commandments, He made clear the blessings of obedience, and the curses that come with disobedience. Same here with Solomon. God reminded him the Davidic covenant and His desire that he’d follow his father’s footsteps for the establishment of the royal kingdom. And then He itemized what will happen if he and Israel will choose otherwise. All in print. Out in the open.

We’ve seen broken relationships and breach of contracts left and right, and sadly, the very offenders are the ones we see free and yes, carefree. Adding insult to injury. And as much as we want to force them to make amends, the fact that we entered that relationship without provisions for possible breach, sealed that invisible right for them to ‘get away with it’. Now we know why it’s wise to be God-like in our dealings. It’s one thing to have faith in someone, but it’s another to teach them accountability and responsibility. This likewise applies to parenting and marriage, even ministry organizations. Take time to draft rules and make it clear to everyone. Otherwise, you know who’s to blame why discipline can’t take its place.